This is a Really Real Mental Health Post.
Trigger Warning: Suicidal Stuff.
I feel that knot in the middle of my chest.
I’m supposed to be leaving for an appointment right now and I can’t even bring myself to call and cancel.
It should be easy.
I’ve distracted myself all morning with a project that I now want to throw away because it isn’t perfect.
I want to throw my life away.
I feel like I have thrown my life away.
I feel like no matter how hard I try it all falls down.
I’ve learned so many skills, so many things that are supposed to stop me from getting like this. Almost a year spent in DBT, and now I can barely bring myself to go to that. I’m not doing the homework.
I’m not functioning.
I’m watching it all fall down.
I’m supposed to be starting work in the fall, but how does one start work when she shuts down like this?
I once had a doctor tell me I was expecting too much of myself by wanting to work again. Maybe they were right, maybe this is it, all I will ever be.
Maybe this really is all too much.
I’m tired of fighting, tired of telling the thoughts that I need to live for one more day, and one more, and one more.
Just want to crawl back in bed but that will let so many people down.
So I sit here full of nothing, full of thoughts that tell me that I’m nothing, that I will always be nothing, that it will never be more than this because it will always come back to this no matter what happens in between.
Everything in my life is a roller coaster and I have yet to follow through with anything. What makes me think that’s going to change. I keep trying so hard and falling down again and again and again and again and again and again.
Watching it all fall down.
I have had the same hopes and dreams for 20 years and I’m no closer to them, swimming against the tide.
Maybe it’s time to stop fighting.
Maybe it’s time to let go.