April 2, 2019 Question of the Day

What would your ideal room look like?

Pick any room you like, bedroom, living room, kitchen, craft room, etc. and describe it.

My ideal living room would be a large room with waist high shelving of varying types.  Book shelves, cube shelves and some larger shelving areas.  On top of the shelves would be cushions and blankets for cozy areas to relax and read or watch TV and game.

One whole wall would be windows with the other walls open for family pictures and various posters, artwork, craft projects, etc. to be hung.

There would be computer space with an attached crafting space for me (a large L shaped area) and then a TV space with all of the various gaming systems for Wonder Woman.  All in close enough proximity to each other that we were still spending time together while having enough room for our own projects.  Siah (the Yorkie with no chill) would have her own little chill out area with her dog bed and blankets tucked away in a little nook between us.

What would your ideal room look like?

Monday Question of the Day!

How do you relax after a hard day?

I will sometimes go for a walk after a particularly rough patch, but more often I will veg out on the computer.  Mindlessly scrolling Facebook or playing a video game.  Cuddles with my fiancee are always a good way to de-stress as well, and it’s something we try to do every night, but especially if it was a rough night.

How about you, how do you relax after a hard day?

Thursday Question of the Day!

Today’s Question:  What is something you feel is missing in your life?

For me right now, it’s local friends.

I have tons of online friends.

I have an amazing, fulfilling, relationship.

I have my derby friends who I see at roller derby events and scrimmages.

I have my best friend who I see on gym days, and really almost every day.

But it would be really nice to have other people to do things with locally.  I’m an incredibly social being and I love the idea of just having people I can call up and say “let’s grab lunch” or “let’s go to the mall” and I’d love a variety of people to do this with.

I’m working on getting out more to places where making friends is possible, but it’s hard because most people I meet are very busy and I’m pretty busy, so finding time in the calendar is difficult and eventually people give up.  Plus, with mental illness in the way, sometimes I’m not the most in touch friend.

What about you, what are you missing?

Tuesday-Question of the Day!

Would you want to relive the best year of your life if it meant you also had to relive the worst?

Absolutely fucking not.

For one, we’re not meant to go back, good or bad. I’m right where I’m meant to be, here in the present.

For two, I don’t want to go through losing Parker again. No way. There isn’t enough of anything in the world.

What about you?

Monday Question of the Day!



If you could convince everyone in the world to do one thing at least once, what would it be?

I would convince everyone to do a professional photo shoot.  Photos are so important and no matter how many reasons you convince yourself that you need to wait to be thinner, happier, have a better home, better reason, better clothes, more money, etc.  Just get the photos done.  I’m so glad my fiancee and I went and I really wish my late wife and I would have made the time/found the money to get a set done at least once.


Saturday Question of the Day!

QOTD Saturday:  What are you doing for fun this weekend?

Tonight I have my Roller Derby game that I will officiate at.  It’s a mixture of fun, anxiety and work.  I look forward to seeing all of my derby people.

Tomorrow I have a friend coming over for crafting and dinner.  We will work on a chainmaille project and we’re having corned beef and cabbage for dinner.

What are you doing for fun?