This is a Really Real Mental Health Post.
I’m full of anxiety, mostly about work.
The kind of anxiety that makes me feel like I can’t breathe.
The kind of anxiety I remember from when I was a little kid.
“I fucked up”
Except I don’t think I’ve actually fucked anything up. Either way, I’m doing the best I can given the circumstances.
But I can’t shake this overwhelming feeling that
It’s like waiting for the other shoe to drop. Except I’m waiting for someone to told me I singlehandedly destroyed it all.
But I’m not that powerful.
I can’t save it, and I can’t destroy it.
I can just keep doing what I’m doing. Pushing papers, writing posts, trying to learn things that I’ve never done before. Trying to keep doing the next right thing.
It’s not my place to save the world.
I’m not that powerful.
But this overwhelming anxiety is locking me in place. I can’t catch my breath, even when I slow down my breathing. Even when I focus on just sitting with the feelings and letting them pass through. Even when I try to remain rooted in this moment. Even when.
My chest is heavy. The ativan isn’t working.
This is SO HARD.
I still can’t believe I took a mental health day today, but I can’t imagine being able to focus on work in this state.
All I can hope is that I can get it back under wraps by tonight, because I have to go back to working sometime, and I don’t feel like this anxiety is going to end anytime soon.
I feel like it’s a part of this new normal we’re living in.
Writing that brought tears to my eyes.
This overwhelming feeling of panic could be here to stay while the world figures out how to exist like this. This discomfort could be a part of me for the foreseeable future.
That is hard shit. But if I can’t run from it, I have to learn how to exist with it. How to make it less debilitating.
I need it to stop raining so I can go for a walk.
I need to stop drinking so much caffeine, that isn’t helping for sure.
I guess it’s time to take another ativan while I figure out how to weave this discomfort into my life. How to exist around it and through it.
If it isn’t going away for awhile, I guess it’s time to make friendly with the weight on my shoulders, the pressure in my chest, the never ending thoughts in my brain.
Maybe it’s time that we coexist.
Hi, old friend, lets chat.